The "Yes" is Just the Beginning: What to Do After Getting Engaged This Christmas
If you’re reading this with a new ring on your finger: Congratulations! Christmas is a whirlwind of magic, and if you just said "Yes," you are likely riding a massive wave of excitement.
But as a Romance Travel Specialist, I know what happens next. The excitement often turns into a mental "to-do" list that feels miles long. You aren’t just planning a wedding; you’re looking at three distinct, massive travel events:
The Bachelorette & Bachelor Parties
The Destination Wedding
The Honeymoon
It’s enough to make anyone want to close their laptop and hide. But here is the good news: You don’t have to do this alone. Think of me as your trusty sidekick. You bring the vision, the mood boards, and the "what if" ideas—and I handle the logistics, the bookings, and the "how."
Whether your dream is a flight across the globe or a luxury road trip just a few hours away, here are the 5 steps to take this week to get the ball rolling.
Step 1: Categorize Your "Big Three" Destinations
The first step is realizing that these three trips don't all have to look the same.
The Wedding: Maybe this is a central "home base" or a destination wedding in Mexico.
The Honeymoon: This is usually the big, bucket-list escape (think 2026 Maldives or Greece).
The Bach Parties: These are often closer to home—perhaps a luxury cabin road trip, a spa weekend, or a quick flight to a city like Nashville or Scottsdale.
TIP: Gather your "aesthetic/dream” for each. I’ll find the properties that fit, whether they are five-star resorts or hidden-gem local boutiques.
Step 2: The "VIP Guest" Audit
For your wedding and your bach parties, the travel logistics depend entirely on your people.
Who are the non-negotiables?
Where are they flying from?
Do they need a road-trip-friendly location, or are they ready for a passport adventure?
NOTE: Once you give me the list, I handle the room blocks, the guest communications, and the travel questions so you don't have to be the "group chat secretary."
Step 3: Map Out the 2026 Timeline
The secret to a smooth 2026 is spacing. You don't want your bach party and your wedding to be so close that you’re exhausted.
Bach Parties: Usually 2–4 months before the big day.
Wedding: Peak 2026 dates are booking NOW!
Honeymoon: Some couples leave immediately; others wait for a "mini-moon" and do the big trip later.
NOTE: I create a master calendar for all three events, ensuring you have enough time to breathe (and save!) between each.
Step 4: Consider the "Total Travel Experience"
Travel planning isn't just about where you sleep. It’s about what you do.
For the Bach Party, it’s about a private chef or a chartered boat.
For the Wedding, it’s about the guest shuttles and the welcome dinner.
For the Honeymoon, it’s about the surprise excursions and the sunset massages.
NOTE: I book every excursion, restaurant reservation, and private transfer. You just show up.
Step 5: Delegate the Mental Load Today
The most important step you can take after a Christmas engagement is deciding not to do it all yourself. You should be enjoying this season, not stressing over flight prices and hotel availability.
When you work with me, you give me the ideas, and I make them happen. I am your advocate from the moment you say "Yes" until you return home from your honeymoon.
Ready to turn those 50 open browser tabs into one perfect itinerary? Let's start the conversation and make 2026 for the coffee table photo books!